Unlock Clarity in Toxic Relationships. Identify, Heal, and Move Forward.

BSradar provides fast, personalized toxicity analysis and expert advice to help you navigate your relationships with confidence.

How BSradar Works: Fast, Simple, and Insightful

Step 1:
Submit Your Communication
Send me your written messages (up to 300 words) from a relationship you're questioning. Whether it's a conversation, text, or email, we analyze the tone, patterns, and red flags for toxicity.
Step 2:
Get Your Personal Analysis
Within 24-48 hours, receive a comprehensive breakdown of the communication, highlighting any toxic behaviors. We provide clear recommendations on how to navigate the situation and move forward.
Step 3:
Take Action with Confidence
Use our insights to make informed decisions about your relationship. Choose to book a 1:1 session for deeper clarity or sign up for a group session for additional support and guidance.

Choose the Right Service for You

01 Quickscan

Price: $33Perfect for: A quick insight into a single message. Get a fast, clear analysis of toxicity and red flags.

02 Quick Dive 1:1 Session - 30 minutes

Price: $69Perfect for: A deeper, personalized dive into your situation. Includes a 30-minute consultation to walk through the analysis and answer any questions.

03 Deep Dive 1:1 Session 60 minutes

Price: $115Perfect for: A thorough 1-hour consultation to analyze multiple communications and provide a roadmap for your next steps. Includes expert advice and tailored support.

What Clients Are Saying

Anna T., Hungary

"Gabor helps me love the parts of me I would otherwise be ashamed of. He taught me to value myself, and become able to laugh on the parts I was programmed to hide. His authenticity and empathy bring out the authenticity from the people who ask his help."

Istvan S, Hungary

I met Gabor at a group session, which he was holding. He created and ensured a safe place for all the participants. One of his sentences has stayed with me since: "Shame always lies." Thank you for this essential reminder!

Bea K., Budapest

"Gabor has shown me how to trust myself, how it feels, when I let myself feel what really is. He helped me learn to respect myself, to set, and keep my boundaries. If I find myself stuck in a situation, it's always him I reach out for. "

Meet Your Coach, Gabor Rutterschmid

Mental Health Coach for 15 years

"I am not "just" a coach, but a narcissistic abuse survivor, too. When I say, I know, what you're going through, I am not quoting a textbook. I speak from experience and from my heart. I can assure you, when you call me, you will find a safe and understanding space. Remember: you don't have to do this alone. "